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Do you have a blog where you can review my book? What’s in it for you? A free read, translates to free eBook sent over your way. Also, lots of traffic from my readers and students and lots of new folks from lots of linkage.

I am looking for blogs that are:

• non-competing with what I offer but complementary
• positive and uplifting
• deals with those who sensitive, empathic, or psychic
• have a good size traffic already

Unlike other blog tours I’ve been involved with, I am looking for positive reviews. I”m sensitive after all. One negative one and I will probably go under the bed and stay there. Hey, being honest here.

Interested? Please contact me on the Contact Me page to discuss, and if accepted, you will be placed on the blog book tour and assigned a day in February.

Very fun! Let’s get the party rolling…

The book on boundaries, Boundaries with Relationships by Charles T. Whitfield,  has some excellent tools, but perusing through it, I noticed I didn’t feel as excited as I did when I was reading the color healing books. Was the info bringing up too much upset? I could feel a ton of anger rise from inside of me from the many times I allowed others to trample or ignore my boundaries. I also felt a little slimed; even negative. What was happening?

I slept on it. No, literally. Woke up this morning and the book was under my butt, as well as my glasses that looked a little mushed out of place. Perhaps I was integrating the material more. But I also had a new awareness of why I felt uncomfortable. Many self help books are designed to package a set of tools. There are some good ones out there that present them well. After reading this one, I felt labeled, “bad,” (and there were plenty of examples given of what is good and what is bad). Crap, everyone has acted the bad part. Talk about unattainable.

Now don’t get me wrong, there are some excellent parts of the book also, but the slimey feeling was what I wanted to look at.

Guidance this morning was very clear: Focus on the solution and you feel empowered. Focus on the problem, and you are stuck IN the problem.

I see this when folks post videos or comments about what is happening that is wrong on this planet, whether genetically-altered food or bad politics. Hearing that news is like hearing about a case of animal abuse. I am left feeling upset, angry, and helpless against the problem. Helpless = slimed.

I like books and teaching that do not keep me stuck in a label, but helps me get out of that hole into a new role. I’m really digging Julia Cameron’s book, Prosperous Heart right now. I concluded that she teaches like how I want to, by story, and then by supplying a tool to help you empower yourself or shift your thinking. In her exercises, I focus on what I want and I feel hopeful and excited, versus what is not working. I don’t look at lack of abundance, but about what I want to create and the small doable steps. It is important to go back to the past for answers and beliefs that don’t work for you, but I sure don’t want to stay there. Reading her book, I am not labeled BAD because I SHOULD have more if I was just doing the SECRET right. I think I had the same reaction to that line of thinking while reading  the Boundaries book. There are enormous amounts of labels, time periods for how long it would take for when I was ‘better,” and most everyone I know are moving very fast right now in their healing beyond any so-called timetables. No one heals when they are stuck under a label, especially when they stay in their pain.

Perhaps it is my upbringing that is the button being pressed here. We were raised with psychology night and day. My father is a psychologist, my mother was a social worker. We were punished or admonished by psychological terms and labels. I would have preferred just being yelled at. Either way, what it produced in me at the time was a sense of dis-empowering; it was just another way to feel shame. I suppose it has the same effect as different educational programs that “weed” out people so only the strong can survive. I went to one design program that set impossible expectations and deadlines and gave out ample criticism. I walked away with not tools, but panic attacks. When I switched to a more unconventional college in another state, expression was valued, grades went from only A to C. The program was not only doable, but fun. And the result? I thrived! In fact, I still feel great love when I think about it. The school focused on the attributes of the students and brought them out (the solution).

Having any problem now, I want to focus on what tools I need now to create solution and that will give me more hope and self power. That’s moving forward out of the hole.

1. One of my favorite essences is Bach Remedies’ Aspen. It’s perfect for free-flowing anxiety, psychic contamination (when you are empathically picking up others’ fears.) A few drops under the tongue is all that is needed. This essence can be repeated often until you feel calm again. Bach Remedies can be found in most health food stores.
2. Fear of moving forward? Gilia* is a cool purple flower that is great for that. Take it with Squash* (the balls essence) and you will be forging ahead in spite of any fear.
3. Fear for loved ones and their paths? Take Bach Remedies’ Red Chestnut. It’s for the worrier.
4. Panic? That kind of fear? Take Rock Rose or Rescue Remedy, both Bach Remedies. If I fly, which I hardly ever do, I take the Rescue Remedy. I took this one when I recently made it to the dentist. Oooh, scary.

Enjoy the support of Nature! When I am lost in fears, one of the best thing I can do is head out to Nature to re-balance and to feel more grounded. When I am grounded, or calm, I can then see and think straight and can see what fears are legitimate, and which ones are just old stuff coming to the surface.

Fairy Online School starts tomorrow. Have you signed up yet?

Welcome from the Fairies!

The natural healing of the animals is priority to the Fairies.

“We love the animals. Animals transmute energy to higher levels naturally. It is a gift they came in with. Some animals, more than others, carry knowledge of healing from other lives. The newer souls are more connected to the light and the higher frequencies. The older ones are learning how to transform into more light. Help them.”

Rocks hold the energy of a place,

much like someone’s watch or jewelry can hold the energy of that person.

Hold a rock. Call on it.

Concentrate on your very next step.

You will connect to a feeling or energy of a place, not a spirit.

It’s an energy you can move and carry.

Go sign up here.

Sign-ups for Winter Session of the Fairy Online School all this week.

Who are the Fairies? was one question we discussed in class. I teach and talk about Today’s Fairies. They are not the stars of fairy tales that steal babies and grant wishes, or are only encountered behind certain oak trees. They are everywhere, because the Fairies are considered the guardian angels of Nature. Nature, like the Earth, are a part of us, not separate, and our whole journey is to reconnect.

One way to do that is through Fairy Philosophy. I will share two parts to give you a little clue and get you started.

#1 is finding the joy in the little things. It’s not that fake positivity we are taught to hide behind. It’s true joy,wonder and awe you had as a child.

#2 make the process fun:  If you are studying in school or busy working in an office, can you have fun organizing with different colored post-its? Is there a way to make the process fun? Back when I was in college, I had to take a four credit college science class. Most of the ones offered were boring and serious and I dreaded it until I found a class in Oceanography. I have to say, that was one of the best classes I ever took! The class was given in a worn-out classroom at the Jersey shore. It was a long drive to classes each time but it was worth it when I came into town and smelled the ocean air. Assignments were carried out sitting on the beach with sand between my toes. That class made a huge impression on me and helped me realize the best way to learn was while having fun. (That’s how Fairy Online School is set up!)

Want to learn more about fairy philosophy? Each class session, I will offer a different Fairies 101 Class Sampler. Check it out here to sign up and try out Fairy Online School.

Already hooked? Dive right in to one of the many Fairy Online School classes offered here that start JANUARY 20TH.

And, you might want to check out the new Fairy Detective class offered in February: Clairvoyance.